Before my baby arrived, I thought I needed everything.
I had lists saved, videos watched, recommendations from everywhere… and still felt unsure. Then the baby comes, and you realize something simple - You don’t need as much as you think. You just need the right things.
Clothing
Newborns don’t need outfits. They need comfort. I remember with my firstborn, I had:
- 3 footies
- 3 kimono sets (top and pants)
- a coming home set (footie, hat, and blanket)
- one extra blanket
- one long sleeve and one short sleeve bodysuit
- one more pair of pants
Everything was in size 0–3 months… and she was only 6.6 lb. Of course, everything was a little big on her 🤷♀️😊
Looking back, I don’t think I had too much. This is actually pretty fair for a newborn. But what I realized is that in those first days, you naturally reach for the same simple pieces over and over again. For me, that was always the footies. So if I had to simplify it, this is what really matters:
- Footies (the easiest and most practical)
- A few of hats
- Blanket
I also remember having little baby booties, but I didn’t use them at all. Footies already keep baby warm, so they’re usually not necessary. 🤷 And the coming home outfit… that’s always a special moment. Something simple, soft and comfortable is more than enough, but it’s also something you’ll always remember.
Sleep
- Swaddles (I used them first 2 weeks)
- A soft blanket
- Bassinet or crib
Babies sleep a lot, but what matters most is that they feel safe and cozy.
Diapering
- Diapers
- Wipes
- Diaper cream
You’ll go through these faster than you expect, so it’s good to have enough ready.
Feeding
- Bottles (even if you plan to breastfeed, just in case)
- Formula, if that feels right for you or simply for peace of mind
- Pacifier
Every feeding journey is different, and there’s no one right way.
Everyday Little Helpers
This is something I used all the time:
- Muslin cotton cloths (a few of them)
They are so useful, You can use it while hold baby, place it under baby while sleeping, clean baby’s lips from milk. They basically have the same purpose as burp cloths… just something you’ll reach for all the time. 😊
Bath & Care
- Baby wash
- Soft towel
- Hair brush
- Baby lotion (I liked using it after bath for extra softness)
You don’t need much here. Just gentle, simple basics.
My Honest Realization
I thought I needed more clothes, more options, more everything. But what actually made a difference was softness, comfort and simplicity. The simpler everything was, the calmer those first days felt.
It’s easy to feel like you need to prepare for everything. But your baby really needs you and a few thoughtful essentials.
Everything else can come later. Enjoy your journey!
With love,
Mariana
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